Roger’s story

Roger’s story

Roger, 73, was born and raised in Basingstoke and has lived most of his life here, so has known of our Hospice since we opened in the 90’s. He has volunteered as a van driver since December 2018.

Coming to the Hospice

Roger’s wife, Maggie, was diagnosed with cancer in December 2010. Roger supported Maggie through all of her appointments, tests and chemotherapy, while trying to keep life as normal as possible.

Sadly, Maggie’s condition deteriorated rapidly in November 2013, which was then complicated by shingles. The decision was made in early December to come to the Hospice to help regulate her medication.

Roger said, ‘‘I’d never been into any Hospice before, I thought it would be gloomy and sad. When we arrived it was light, bright and people were smiling. At that moment a weight was lifted off my shoulders. Everyone was kind, I went home that night and had the best night’s sleep knowing my Maggie was in the best place for her needs.’’

When at home, Maggie would occasionally dog sit her son’s Jack Russell, who was allowed to visit her at the Hospice, which gave big smiles all round.

Maggie sadly passed away on the 22 December 2013 with Roger, their daughter and their son by her side.

Giving back

In 2017, Roger retired. ‘‘After doing all of the jobs I needed to do in the home, I soon realised I had time to spare. I rang the Hospice to offer my time, partly expecting to be told, gently, that I was too old or that part days were not viable. To my surprise, I was not too old and any help would be appreciated. I also found out about other opportunities that are available for volunteers, including behind the scene roles such as van driving.’’

Roger started with one morning per week, then two and currently does a minimum of three mornings a week. This involves collecting and delivering donations between the shops and distribution centre.

Roger also brings smiles to staff’s faces by providing cake – which he bakes himself!

When asked why he volunteers, Roger said, ‘‘I wanted to give something back for what they gave me. The Hospice gave Maggie so much and really supported us as a family.’’

Recently, Roger has successfully completed 1100 hours volunteering in the 4 years since he started (excluding times when the shops were closed due to Covid).

To find out more about our volunteering roles and how you can apply, click here.